12/26/2009

Love

Love is like a package (traveling package), full of different things in it, it is a feeling that comes with series of sacrifices, pains, understanding and commitment. You can decide what to do with it and where you go and end up by it.
As they say there are different levels of love in this world but the humanly ones are, person to him/her self love, someone to someone else, and human to God (spiritual ones).
these levels are like layers coming after each other, But they only appear when u full fill ur need of the level u r in.
You can never love anyone if u dun love yourself, that is the fact (actually u might do it but it is gonna destroy you completely).
Now some people dun even believe in love because they dun understand it, or they dun wanna understand it, or they got hurt by it that they lost they believe in it (which is not possible, these group will fall in love again sooner or later).
The problem is what people think of love nowadays is quit wrong they expect so much from it without doin shit for it, Living in this world and getting whatever u desire is not as simple as so many people think it is, this world is a harsh and brutal place with wolves in it everywhere in every corner, people who think it is simple are like sheep in this world (No offense but it's the truth, believe it or not).
Love is a word like every other word that we use, but the feeling and the power that this simple word gives us is what makes it powerful and wanted, Everyone needs love (if he/she is a normal human being) and because of that it is very popular among creations.
Some show it with their words, some in their act, some only with their look, But i feel sad for the ones who doesn't have the ability to show it at all.
The 1st love i wanna talk about is the human to him/her self, which is actually very rare to see nowadays, because since the postmodernism the society has changed a lot, some in good ways and some in bad. people are always thinking of themselves, their desires, money and lust that it makes them loose their senses and finally get depression which is very usual to see nowadays.
But the people who are trying to be extraordinary and not juz think of all the limited part of this life are the one who really love themselves and are the ones who are mostly successful in life.
The 2nd one is lovin someone else which most of us think we do but the reality is, it is juz the nature of every livin thing to think of opposite sex and they dun really love each other it is juz the act of nature and lust in them. Loving others is not an easy thing to do, in fact it is one of the hardest mission of life, You have to sacrifice a lot in your life if u really love the person.
True Love is somethin extraordinary, unimaginable and amazing which most people never get the chance to understand it and dun wanna understand it because they are drowning in their desires so much, that they can't even believe in it anymore. (I believe this is the reason that most of "as they call loves" are getting shorter and shorter by the time passes and generations change).
The 3rd is loving God, Which i haven't been able to believe in it, but i have read a lot about it.
They say when u start loving god by the time passes by u dissolve in it more and more till no one will be able to realize what happened to u ever.
The people who are usually like this are the one who are really spiritual (not the ones that do exorcism and all), the ones who we usually call Monk or Prophet. These people dedicate their life to as they call God.
We have different Monks and spiritual ways too, I know about the Buddhist ones, Indian ones and middle eastern ones which i believe are not the only groups and there are others in different continents, their rituals are different as well, depend on what they believe, But what i found interesting in it is the No.7 which has a very neat complication with religion (as they say god created the world in 7 days and there are 7 skies). Most of them believe that there is 7 levels to get to God and dissolve in it (There are different names for the last level like Nirvana or Paradise and ......). You dun really need to get to this level or even think of it if u still want to live your life normally.
But the point is Love in every different ways and levels of it is not most people think of it nowadays.
People used to die for what they loved (like country and family), But what you see especially among the latest generation, spreading and surrounding the world is juz the shadow of what they call love. Love used to be one of the greatest power of human beings and hate the worst enemy.
I believe the new generation is scared, They feel scared of love because of the consequences they think that might happen, like What if the one i love cheats on me, what if he/she lies to me?, What if he/she leaves me?, What if he/she dies?, But what they don't understand is all these thoughts and worries are part of this package and you can't change it, You juz have to have faith in it.
And none of us care about it anymore, we juz think of our self, juz thinkin how to earn more to eat more and have more, drowning in our desires.
And the most fucked up part is, most of us know about all these things but we can't do shit coz we became so weak and fragile by all these equipment, technology, desires and ..... that we can't even stop being like this.
I guess our life is doomed to get worse and worse everyday, i juz dun understand how far can it go.

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